A Little Treat…

Here’s a little something for you guys for while I’m on my kink trip in the Mile High City.  I’ll try my best to post updates, but chances are good that I won’t have much access to my electronic devices .  Enjoy!

Big Trip!

Just 7 more days until my next big kink trip!  I can’t wait!  I’m so excited to see some of my  old friends, new friends, and make even more new friends!  I’ll have more on this trip and the two big ones that preceded it soon!

The Next Chapter

… At the time, it was just another message.  I was a little more excited about it than most because it was from someone closer to my age, which is really hard to come by down here in the ‘retirement state’, but he was completely on the other side of the state so I didn’t think much of it.  Eventually, one message turned into two, two to three, and so on.  We realized that our interests were very parallel which helped to shrink the distance between us.  Eventually the time came for me to make the drive, a little more than 2 hours, to meet this kid and his boyfriend (also kinky).

It wasn’t long before he was the strongest kink friend I had.  It wasn’t long after that before I considered him one of my best friends.  Most of the best kinky times of my life have involved him.  He opened up a whole new chapter of my life.  Eventually, he helped me get to where I am now, meeting new guys, seeing new places, and trying new things:  all of which I could only dream of just a year ago.  Immediately after I began this new exploration, I realized exactly how much weight kink holds in my life (a lot).  Thanks for everything flyboyfl!

Super Bowl Play!

I apologize for the interruption right after the cliff hanger at the end of the last post.  I’ve got a busy week ahead of me, but I promise I’ll pick up where I left off as soon as I can.  Other than that, I enjoyed a little play with my good friend flyboyfl this past Super Bowl weekend.

My first night there, I spent the night hooded with my hands locked in padded fist mitts and bound to my waist with a locking humane restraint belt.  Don’t you just love good nights in bondage?!  Among other highlights, Flyboyfl got himself tied down to the bed in his straight jacket (As did I) and I got to have a little fun doing a rather simple, yet celebratory decorating of the tight mummification I kept flyboyfl in for the 3rd quarter of the big game.  Nothing special… Just something to remind us that this was a Super Bowl mummy!  Here’s a pic of the final product:

Other than that, I’ve added a “Follow” button to the sidebar to follow my blog via email.  I’ve also added links to my own Recon and Gear Fetish profiles in the sidebar (Note that you must be a gearfetish member to view my page there).  More to come soon!

 

 

The Norm

So after years of growing up out of reach of the bondage I craved so much, I finally found something.  I was on cloud nine.  After visiting this first bondage friend a number of times, I began to feel more comfortable with the idea of meeting others for this risking form of fun.  Before I knew it, I was meeting a few other guys.  Then something unexpected happened that threw everything off.  I found a boyfriend.

And thus began the first true relationship of my life.  He was kinky.  But that’s it.  Even though we were both into bondage and had other assorted fetishes, nothing really ever happened.  We cuddled.  We had dinner.  We watched movies.  Obviously, it didn’t last very long.  I’m actually surprised it lasted the 5 or so months that it did.  While we were dating, I stopped my bondage meetings.  When ended, it was back to the norm:

Hooded with Bit Gag

Eventually, I met my good friend, jazzboi, and after an all-nighter bondage meet, we became regular bondage buds.  For a couple years, a majority of my bondage time was spent with jazzboi.  At first we explored a lot of rope bondage and over the course of those years, we both learned a lot from each other.  Eventually, leather gear made it’s way into the fun and opened up new possibilities.  This was my first real step into leather gear.  I had been interested in it before, but with very little experience with it, it wasn’t much more than an interest.  After being able to really get a feel for it and see what it’s all about, my interest in it really began to grow.

At this point, I had reached a new norm.  Things were going good.  I couldn’t complain, but I always kept an eye open for what was next.  I tried to focus on my immediate area when searching for guys on recon and gearfetish, but my efforts didn’t yield many results.

Then everything changed.  And I mean CHANGED.  Out of the blue, I got a message from a kid in Daytona…..

Self Bondage and it’s Death

Ah, the good ol’ self bondage days.  I’m sure this was the beginning point for a number of you kinksters.  Back then, self bondage was really the only option I had.  Bondage itself was still only an interest, but even with such little knowledge of it, I knew it was an interest that I would carry with me for the rest of my life.  And that’s certainly held true so far!

So every couple weeks I’d end up either on the bed or floor in a pretty decent self made hogtie.  Other times I managed to get myself stretched into a spread eagle.  I had a few online contacts that I chatted with who gave me pointers to perfect my technique.  Some of my escape tricks got pretty clever.  Of course, I always played safe; never put anything around my neck or did anything that could potentially harm me.  There was always a solid way out.  And like any bondage starved youngster, duct tape was my best friend

After a couple years of this, an amazing thing happened.  College!  Out of the house, on my own, the world was mine!  It took a little time for me to build up the courage, but I finally got some real bondage for the first time.  This was the first big change in my kink life, but as you’ll see later, it’s far from the most significant.  And here’s the result:

Starting Point.

Welcome!  After experiencing some incredible changes in my kink life, I’ve decided to create this blog to chronicle my experiences and how they’ve changed me from the start to the present day.  I’m hoping to post as regularly as possible, which will include both written accounts as well as pictures .

One of the things I’ve learned recently is that it’s important for you to get out there and experience things for yourself.  I hope, aside from entertaining, that I can inspire up-and-comers in the community.

So here’s to the first page of this chapter.  Hope you enjoy is as much as I will!